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"Chinwe and Sam were course mates and
fellowship members in the University. As a result,
they were very close, always doing things
together daily. Chinwe misconstrued this as
being in a relationship.
Sam, on his own, was enjoying the friendship and
was prepared to do
anything for chinwe, who did not hesitate to
expose her past and future to sam.
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But she never observed that Sam never told her
about his own life.
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All brothers that desired to marry chinwe thought
she was already engaged to Sam.
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After schooling, they were both posted to the
North for service. As a result, they both
exchanged regular visits.
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After service, they returned to Lagos and got
good employment.
Six months later, Sam sent his wedding invitation
card to Chinwe, who was so affected that it
landed her in the hospital.
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When Sam was queried, he said he never thought
of marrying
her as he was already engaged before meeting
her. He concluded that he only saw her like his
younger sister and nothing more.
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When Chinwe was confronted with the fact that
sam never proposed marriage to her, she was
dazed.It was then she realised her folly".
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This is very common among youths. They
assume about relationship most of the time,
thereby setting up themselves for great
disappointment.
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The danger is, everybody will assume you are
engaged while you are hoping the brother is
taking his time and will propose soonest.
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WHAT TO DO
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1. As a lady, define all your relationships. If a
brother is becoming too close without disclosing
his intention, ask him what he wants from you.
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2. Don't be too close to any brother to the point
that people will start to insinuates.
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3. Never allow a brother propose with proverbs or
idioms to you. Pretend as if you don't know what
he is saying until he comes straight.
For example, if he says, "Let me be the umbrella
on your head", tell him, "I am not in the sun and i
do
not need an umbrella".
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4. Avoid cooking for brothers unnecessarily. Most
brothers love food and will do anything to keep
the source of their good food, even if it means
pretending they are in love.
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5. Do not help a brother by proposing for him.
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ANY BROTHER THAT IS NOT BOLD ENOUGH TO
PROPOSE TO YOU IS NOT OLD ENOUGH TO BE
YOUR HUSBAND. Brothers should be bold to
propose simply, concisely and directly without
proverbs or idioms.
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6. Get a direct "YES" or "NO" from a lady; do not
assume..
A Word Is Enough For The Wise.
